Sebastian's eyes narrowed slight in concentration when he watched her reaction to his observation and he knew before she even spoke that he was right. He pointed between then both. "You and me, we're the same sort of people but the difference if you want to date. I don't. I've never met anyone who even comes close to me wanting to consider changing everything I'm comfortable with for them. You are. You want what Blaine's gone and got with Kurt, and there's probably a piece of you deep down inside that's jealous, especially considering you weren't Kurt's biggest fan. Now you're probably wondering when you can meet him again to see what it is that he has that you don't and how he got it and you can't figure it out without being scared or worried what it would mean if you did fall for someone. Maybe you should talk to Kurt and see what makes it all tick for him. It can't hurt, right? It might actually be sobering for you to see him like he is."

He shrugged. "Germ knows more about it than I do because he's a qualified psych. Not that this is his area of speciality, but he explained bits of it. Sounds like it gets bad. Kurt literally despises himself, thinks everyone else should too. It's a constant battle to better himself and stay in control, because if he loses control, he gets fat, and ugly, and weak, and stupid. At least, that's what his brain tells him. It's intense, and Puck said that whatever it is, Kurt's got it bad. He's been in a special clinic for weeks because physically couldn't eat he went so far with it. They're feeding him through a tube. I mean, that's eye-opening when you think about it. Imagine your brain going against your body? Makes me grateful I'm 100% healthy, can fuck who I want, and have a family who is safe."