Look, this is probably going to sound extremely arrogant, but if I'm going to go out of my way to commit to something, I need to know it's worth it because my time is a valuable resource. If we're both too busy to have time to even have a regular conversation, it won't work. I'm not really the dating sort, so if I do it, it's got to be something worthwhile. So far, it's just been a date and not much else. No avenue to gain any momentum.